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  • Why do not be shy to take money from a man,

With the development of society, and especially with the advent of feminism, women have become much more independent - if desired, each of us can achieve a good position and not deny ourselves anything. But life situations are different, and therefore you should not be afraid to ask your man for money.
Is this normal?
The main thing in the relations of two people is equality. If you are sure that your man can help you financially in the same way as you do to him, then no one forbids you to do this by mutual agreement. In this situation, the main thing is to distinguish between such concepts as “take money” and “sit on the neck”. If both people are equally motivated and strive to be successful people, then there is nothing wrong with taking money from your partner. It’s better to discuss such details at the very beginning of the relationship in order to understand whether your views on finances are similar.

  •     Moreover, a man should not be ashamed or unpleasant to pay for his woman - this is one of the manifestations of concern for a loved one.

You can take care in different ways, and when a woman has any financial difficulties, a man wants to help her, this is completely normal.
Call of Duty
Also, do not feel that you owe someone something if your man has agreed to pay you something / buy something or just give money. This is an act of goodwill, and you do not have to think that it is worth something to “earn” or “repay”.

You can always return the money to him later, or do something in return for him when he needs help. Healthy relationships are built on the principle of mutual assistance and mutual respect. If your partner openly hints or demands something from you in return for material things, or, having the opportunity, does not help you at all, knowing that you have a very difficult situation - it is likely that you are in an abusive relationship.
Why are we embarrassed?
And yet, even if we know that this is normal, it’s awkward to take money from a young man. This feeling is quite explainable psychologically - when we ask for something from someone, it means we cannot get it ourselves, and this makes us weak.

But this does not mean at all that we really cannot stand up for ourselves or pay for it - it only means that you may not be used to a person yet, and at first it’s always embarrassing. Even if this is subconscious, we still do not want to look more helpless than a partner, especially in the 21st century!
But when the couple grinds to each other, usually finances cease to be someone else’s property and partners absolutely calmly (if there are certain agreements, of course) can pay for each other and not worry about money, because they are practically one piece - and this is completely normal.




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